Premarital Sex

Premarital Sex is Forbidden in most religions.WHY is it frowned upon so much! If we go according to Nature we should be married around 16 or so because that's when we hit puberty. but now with the competitive world it's almost impossible and funny to get married at that age. Face it we all are humans so it doesn't mean that we don't get the need until we are married. In olden days people got married very young so there were very less problems about Premarital sex, but today its different most men get married after 30 and women around 25 .Men who ,are in there thirties wont be probably keeping there virginity until they get married, I am not telling everyone is like this but most wont. After all the messages we receive from most TV shows and movies these days tells us "everyone is doing it, right?so most youngesters must be confused and probably having the wrong picture about the whole thing. so after reading some articles i got some information about what some religions tell about Premarital sex, hope you guys would find it interesting and Useful.

Buddhism
Buddhists believe that sex before marriage is not immoral if there is love and consent between the two parties involved. According to Buddhist precepts, as long as the act of sex does not cause harm to you or another person in any way, it is permissible.

Hinduism
Hinduism's received moral traditions about premarital sex are rooted in its concept of the stages of life. One of these stages is the life of the celibate student, which precedes the stage of the married householder. Celibacy is considered the appropriate behavior for both male and female students (or unmarried singles who have left school). Hinduism holds this view not because it regards sex as inherently sinful, but because of this belief in certain life stages.

Islam
According to the Qur'an, "the believers are...those who protect their sexual organs except from their spouses... Therefore, whosoever seeks more beyond that [in sexual gratification], then they are the transgressors." (23:5-6). Muslim scholars say this statement "makes it very clear that any sexual gratification outside marriage is considered a transgression of the law of God."

Catholic

The Catholic church teaches that situations where sex occurs outside of marriage "offend against the dignity of marriage; they destroy the very idea of the family; they weaken the sense of fidelity. They are contrary to the moral law. The sexual act must take place exclusively within marriage. Outside of marriage it always constitutes a grave sin and excludes one from sacramental communion."

Even though it is Hard to suppress your feelings and desires when your with the love of your life, I think one should keep ones virginity Until marriage, because from what I have heard and read Sex after marriage is the most wonderful experience ever, why spoil it and mess it up? and think of all the risks and

headaches you will have to go through ? fear of pregnancy, fear of disease and by any chance if you wont be able to marry the same person think of the guilt you will be carrying in your heart everyday when your with your husband or wife later on !

Marriage is a sacred thing between two pepol which is built with love and trust.the bond between a husband and a wife gets stronger with the shared intimacy. its best not to spoil it and loose the spark....so folks Save it for sthe most heavenly and unforgetable day of your life!!