TRY TO MIND UR OWN BUSINESS

Why do people have to be so cynical these days.. why cant they mind there own business? Why do most people think that they are perfect? What if I am skinny or Fat? What is their bloody problem..
Have u ever heard someone telling,”oh my god loook how fat she is”? “or ewwwww she is so skinny”, “she is so dark, his hair looks weird”, oh why is she/he wearing that it looks horrible. What the hell, it’s their own wish. Not as if their making others uncomfortable right?

when ever I see my nosy relatives I here this phrase alot oh !u have gone fat... grrr and when they see my cousin ,they will go ohhhhhh god gal try to gain some weight u look sooooooooo thin.. At one time i wanted to shout at one aunt telling GET LOST U COW. But since I am not in a community like that I had to give the plastic smile and go away dragging my cousin..
people telling you how u look to your face is quite ok, sometimes some people who really care about u do that to make u look better, but it really hurts when u hear someone back biting and laughing about u. I know some don’t think too much, they tell what they think out loud , but next time u come close to doing something like that , think how she/he will feel if she / he hears u. believe me if u here someone telling something bad about u , u will understand about the feeling I am talking about.

When I was in Grade 1, there was this dark girl and everyone called her KALU APPE (black hopper) but even at that time I thought she had a nice smile, I was the only one who played with her most of the time...I think its the way we have been told, from small days we have this concept in our minds that dark is ugly and fair is prettier, and many more like that. But for me I find dark gals more attractive, most of the time they have a hidden beauty inside themselves...

So whether your Dark or fair, fat or thin, Just know that there is someone, at least one person in your life who loves u for who u are, and not for how u look (it can be your mother ,father ,sister friend, boy friend girl friend , anyone). Always remember that beauty is skin deep..

I am not telling I haven’t done it, I sometimes do comment on peoples dress ‘s or hair styles, but not about they are body or skin color, never in my life. I don't judge people by they are outer appearance, but by what they are inside. So from today onwards I will try my best to, not to comment bad about others... hope u will too!